5 reasons you SHOULDN'T marry him...Part.1

Five Reasons you shouldn't marry him...😮

Come in here, ladies. Often than none, you hear that men changes all of a sudden and it seem so unprecedented. It's just as though the person they've never seen before was the one they got married to. The cues have always been there, just not too obvious or perhaps they neglected the signs and chose to believe what they wanted. Here are five signs that you should look out for in a man before you sign the 'I do' contract. Read and learn.

The reasons you shouldn't marry him are stated below,

#1. He never says SORRY

Relationships are best tested with fallout and argument of some sorts. If he is always in the wrong and never apologizes to you, then you are in for a big trouble. First, the lack of apology makes a relationship live on a time bomb. Hurts over hurts are stock piled and if left unchecked might make the lady become bitter and eventually when they get married, the guy becomes the lord of the house with no regards for his wife. If he doesn't know how to say the 'SORRY' word, you've talked about it countlessly and he's defiant. My dear, let him go. Whoever is too big to say 'SORRY' has an obvious ego issue. Let him get far away from you, like heaven is to earth.

#2. He never compliments you

As a lady, you do your best to get out of your way to do things for him in the relationship and he never appreciates you. He takes you for granted at the slightest opportunities, no romantic messages, no common 'THANK YOU' for the other day. My dear, you're in a relationship with a dead person. Don't soak it in and say he'll change in the future. He might never change. If a man doesn't appreciate you, then you don't mean much to him. It must be mutual. Let him go, if he's too big to say THANK YOU, YOU DID WELL, or any other common pleasantries. Shoot him off, not literally though.

#3. He doesn't like all your friends...

If you are dating a guy that is always complaining about all your friends and because of him, you change friends like you change your wardrobe. Then, something is wrong with him and not you. He wants to own you like a piece of artefact. Guys who dominate their girlfriends are paranoid they'll become what they are. Most of these guys have other secret relationships they jealously guard. If he's too judgemental, always condemning everyone close to you. Let him go, you're not his toy.

#4. He doesn't show you off

You hear guys say, I'm a shy lover. It's not true cos there's no fear in love. If he's not showing you to his friends, his family, his relatives. My dear, you are not the number #1. Guys love to show off things, be it jewelries, cars, clothes or shoes. It's perfectly natural to let other know your favorites. If he likes you to seat in the car and tells not to bother that he'll be back in a jiffy. He keeps you in his purse and tells you to wait for the right moment. Listen, the right moment might never come. Get out of that relationship.

#5. He doesn't want you to be better than him.

Now this is a big one. You're dating a guy who's worried you'll be bigger and better than him. He resents you making bigger figures than him. He never celebrates your great moments. He's concerned about himself alone. When you talk big business ideas, he switches off and seem unconcerned. He's not worried about your future as he ought to. For me, that is the biggest NO-NO in any relationship. If he's not talking about your future and things that will make you a better person in life. He doesn't really love you. Move on!

For me, these are the most serious five signs I feel most ladies should concentrate on. There are others though, not one of us is perfect but that's not an excuse to be an ass (pardon me). Everyone deserves the best, don't settle for less.